The benefit mindset is thinking caring thoughts about all people and the whole planet. But living the benefit mindset doesn’t remain only in our minds. We can actually do things that help others and protect nature. These acts of kindness create a better world for everyone.
The benefit mindset asks each person to share what we know, what we can do, and what we can give. We don’t have to know or give everything in order to help others or to make positive change. We don’t even have to be experts to begin helping and adding to the wellbeing of others.
We also don’t have to do it all because if each person regularly does their part to make the world a happier, healthier place, then all those small impacts will add up to real and lasting improvement in a variety of important ways.
But the benefit mindset is not only about others. When we help to make someone else’s life better, we automatically feel good, special, and useful. Both the giver and the receiver always equally benefit from acts of kindness and support.
The benefit mindset adds purpose and meaning to our lives because we feel more connected to others. We also feel like our lives matter and that we truly make a difference.
Learning and living are often very self-centered activities as we mostly concentrate on our personal growth, happiness, and success. A growth mindset focuses on our self-confidence and self-improvement, and there is nothing wrong with believing in ourselves and getting better. In fact, we each must have strong confidence and capabilities, or else how can we actually be of benefit to others?
Therefore, the benefit mindset is a natural extension of the growth mindset.
There is always room and reason to include others as a way of showing gratitude, goodwill, and giving back.
Figuring out how best for each person to volunteer, donate, or be kind can become a way of expressing ourselves and finding our true selves. When we focus on using what we are already interested in and what we are good at, we discover how we can make the most impact while having a genuinely good time!
Living the benefit mindset should be a joyful experience. This way, we are much more likely to make helping others a happy habit.
Another advantage of living the benefit mindset is that when we surround ourselves with people who enjoy what we enjoy and who are interested in what we are interested in, we find a new sense of belonging and fellowship. Also, being around others who are good at what we are good at helps everyone in the room sharpen their skills. The benefit mindset truly improves the whole person: socially, emotionally, soulfully, and skillfully!
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Besides asking ourselves, “What lights me up?” we can also ask, “What breaks my heart?” Our answers to the last question can lead us to practice the benefit mindset, not only by focusing on what brings us joy, but by also working toward righting the wrongs that concern each of us the most.
These can be the concerns that have affected ourselves or our family and friends, or they can be the concerns that affect people near and far who we don’t even know. They can even be the concerns we have about our planet and all of its diverse life forms.
Either way, our efforts to remedy any form of pain, injustice, and harm can have wide reaching impacts that make the world safer, more peaceful, and more prosperous for all.
Whether it’s called teaching children compassion, volunteerism, service learning, character development, prosocial behavior, soft skills, gratitude, wellbeing, mindfulness, resiliency, or leadership skills, the scientific research on cultivating these habits is overwhelming. The benefit mindset is simply a much-needed umbrella term for infusing learning with the needs of the common good.
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