It Takes Strong Adults to Raise Strong Children (Part Three of a Four-Part Series)

Admittedly, firm leadership runs the occasional risk of the adult authority figure being perceived by some children as unpopular or as the “bad guy.” Yet if one of your greatest fears as a parent or a teacher is falling into disfavor, no matter how temporarily,  with the very children you are endeavoring to raise right … Continue reading It Takes Strong Adults to Raise Strong Children (Part Three of a Four-Part Series)

It Takes Strong Adults to Raise Strong Children (Part Two of a Four-Part Series)

Parents and teachers alike need to stop thinking that cultivating warm and fuzzy relationships with kids is all that is needed to produce successful, secure children. I can understand people’s good intentions, but I am sick of constantly hearing that the fruitful rearing and educating of children is “all about” relationships. Just because you sincerely … Continue reading It Takes Strong Adults to Raise Strong Children (Part Two of a Four-Part Series)

The True Meaning of Parental Commitment

Conscientious parents and teachers can cite a laundry list of specific ways in which they routinely provide the children they care about with the core needs of leadership, love, laughter, and learning. None of the ways these adults actively motivate kids is mysterious or magical to them. Instead, every word and deed that comes from … Continue reading The True Meaning of Parental Commitment

The Four Fundamental Needs of All Children

If you count yourself among those parents and teachers who have within their midst kids who are naturally self-motivated, congratulations! Whatever you are doing is working, especially on children who just do not to seem to need that much work. Since there must be underlying reasons why some kids thrive, sometimes seemingly all on their … Continue reading The Four Fundamental Needs of All Children